Hi everyone.

I am pretty much getting to the end of both the money I got from relatives over Christmas, and the money I actually earned working just before Christmas. I have quite a large family, especially on my Mum's side, and I tend to ask for book tokens rather than presents because I usually can't think of presents I actually want. I asked for a rucksack to replace my 10-year-old one (which works fine except for the zips which are knackered) and got one that was nothing like it, and couldn't find a suitable replacement when I looked for one myself, either.

So, these are the books I've got so far:

- Smashing Wordpress, by Thord Daniel Hedengren (just in case I want to do some serious theme work on my main blog instead of just using a stock theme)
- No Biting, No Fighting, No Screaming, by Hejlskov Elven (which is about ways to deal with difficult situations involving autistic or developmentally delayed people)
- Caged in Chaos, by Victoria Biggs (this is about dyspraxia, which I don't have, but I had to have the book after being contacted by Vicky. Lovely, well-written book. I looked for it in the health section in the local Waterstones and it wasn't there anymore, and the staff told me it may have been put on reserve. I then went to the Psychology section, which is in a totally different part of the shop, and found it right there.)
- Sams' Teach Yourself Android Programming in 24 Hours (or something like that) (since I actually got my Android phone intending to do some programming on it)
- Pornland, by Gail Dines ("How Porn has Hijacked our Sexuality") - I think it was Natasha Walter's Living Dolls which excited my interest in this subject (and in my next choice).
- Delusions of Gender, by Cordelia Fine (an antidote to the Venus and Mars claptrap which has been cropping up on my FB timeline recently)

My plan was then to use most of the remainder on Drupal Building Blocks by Earl & Lynette Miles, which was meant to have been released on New Year's Eve. However, it's still not available anywhere, and I called Foyle's in London earlier and they said it wasn't expected to be released until the 28th. So my next choice is The Net Delusion by Evgeny Morozov, which argues that the net hasn't been the liberating force it was intended to be.

Any thoughts? Anyone read it yet?

As you can tell, I read a lot more fact than fiction. I can't remember if I've even read any fiction since "The Shipping News" and that was in 1999. I can easily recommend the book over the film.
I am really glad about this.

All the same, I'm not sure why the sex discrimination case failed - they kept the 70-year-old male presenter (albeit relegating him to his own slot rather than keeping him as the main presenter) and got rid of a 53-year-old female one, when moving the show from Sunday mornings to Sunday evenings, replacing her with some "young blood". It seems that this is a trend on British TV current affairs programmes, where they often get rid of older female presenters who have some degree of gravitas, while bringing in "leggy" young women (while male presenters, young and old, continue to wear suits and ties).

The excuse that she was "not recognisable to a peaktime audience" doesn't wash, either. How does someone become recognisable if they don't get to present in that slot? (The "no experience" trap I know only too well.) If it's important, why bother moving the show at all?
A few months ago I put together a Wikipedia page on Lynn Gilderdale. It contained a potted history of her life, her illness, the events leading up to her death and her mother's trial, sourced from various newspapers, articles reproduced on various ME-related websites and a couple of the transcripts which are available on my blog. Although I found some comments she posted on others' blogs (she had her own, but it was friends only) describing her condition as it had been and as it was then (2005-8), I didn't use any of them as they were on pretty obscure blogs by people who might not want the exposure.

Now, someone (who, like a lot of those on Wikipedia, doesn't give his real name) has added a "notability" warning to the entry, which means that the subject might not have been important enough to merit inclusion. Lynn having been a wonderful person and a great friend to people all over the world doesn't mean she merits inclusion, but having been the focus of a major news story in the UK (not sure which country the person recommending deletion is in) and an important debate about the assisted dying issue, and being the subject of an upcoming book, do. Sophia Mirza (another severe ME sufferer who died in 2005) already has a page and nobody is suggesting that she isn't notable enough.

I intend to try and add more content regarding the post-trial assisted dying debate and the upcoming book in the next few days. It's not the first time someone has tried to trash my Wikipedia work - I did a whole page on Kesgrave Hall, where my old school (the really bad one) was situated, only for it to be carved up and for someone to insert a sneering note about me into one of them. The same person (an old school "friend") also posted a somewhat hostile biography of me on Wikipedia, and justified my notability on the grounds that I'd been mentioned (in passing, and not by name) in the Spectator. The editors of Wikipedia have since seen sense and deleted it.
Like, I suspect, a lot of former EastEnders viewers, I switched off because of the current cot death / baby swap story. Actually, I did so as soon as it became obvious that this was going to happen: Ronnie (Veronica Branning, played by Samantha Womack) carried her dead baby around the square and eventually into the Vic (the Queen Victoria pub) and found her way to the cot where Tommy, Kat Moon's new baby boy (conveniently the same sex and born the same day as Ronnie's baby) was gurgling away. Then we get the dum, dum, dum dum dum da-da-dum and the programme ends, and at that point I knew what was going to happen.

One of the most common arguments is that when a mother suffers a cot death, the last thing she wants is someone else's baby; she just wants her own, alive. I've no experience (I'm male and not a parent) but Ronnie didn't just go straight to Kat and Alfie's, but rather knocked on at least two doors to try and ask for help first. What made me switch off at this point wasn't the offensiveness but the tiresomeness of seeing yet another character in the soap dig herself into a hole, as pretty much everyone in that programme seems to do again and again and again. Up until this, Ronnie had been one of the characters with her head just about screwed on right, and it's the latest in a long line of decent characters being turned into either monsters or flakes.

Take Ben, who was formerly irritating but innocent, and seems to have turned nasty after several months in a detention centre for attacking Jordan (after being egged on by daddy Phil to "be a man"), or Adam, the guy in the wheelchair who had seemed nice, then started pressuring Lucy Beale for sex while supposedly dating Libby Fox (who got written out presumably before they could turn her nasty as well). They do not seem to want us to become attached to any of the characters, which perhaps makes sense as they're only fiction ... but it makes it that much more difficult to maintain an attachment to the show itself.
I had a look through the Android Market today (I have an HTC Hero, or T-Mobile G2 as it's branded) and found two popular LiveJournal clients, LJBeetle and one simply titled "LiveJournal blog client", although its name when it installs is SK-LJ. I tried both and found that neither supported Dreamwidth - they were both for the LJ service rather than any service which is based on LJ, and there have been other LJ-based blogging communities for years now. It would be pretty simple for them to support them, it's just a case of putting a selector in with some of the more popular services, or a text box so you can enter the XML-RPC endpoint.

I did a search for "livejournal android client" and found that [personal profile] exor674 is developing a DW client, but I wonder if that is going to support blogging services other than DW? It would be so much easier to just put in an endpoint selector. After all, the Wordpress Android client has supported self-hosted Wordpress, and other WPMU hosts, for years.
The other day when I decided to join Dreamwidth, I was directed to one of the code-sharing communities ([site community profile] dw_codesharing) where people post invites they have received but presumably don't have friends to distribute them to. I went through one entry after the other and pasted every code I could find into the space. Not one of them worked! Even though the entries all said to leave a comment, clearly people had helped themselves without bothering to leave a thank-you (or even a "taken" message) to save anyone else the trouble of pasting a code that no longer works.

I then left a comment for [personal profile] campylobacter telling her to mail me one of her open invites through the contact page on my main blog. (Well, I presume it's a she, as her userpic has a woman on it ...) This she did. By that time I'd found an open invite on LiveJournal's DW invite board, and promptly emailed CB to say I no longer needed hers and thanks for sending it. Anyway, I don't know whether the moral is not to leave invite codes on an open website, or else they'll be taken up by who knows who, or not to bother going through lists of open invites as they'll probably be taken. Or both.
Title says it all really. It's only been open for a year and a couple of months, it was a lively and interesting site, and I didn't always agree with what they said (and particularly some of their opinions on gender politics) but I had some other interesting exchanges and saw many more. They were instrumental in encouraging me to get referred for my Asperger's diagnosis, and I was able to talk about the effect it's had on my life in a semi-public sphere which I didn't feel comfortable doing on my blog. It helped that they were mostly women; I've long found it more comfortable talking to them than other men, even though most Aspies are male. I also found their news round-ups really useful.

I find it puzzling that they just pulled down the shutters without telling anyone in advance. They had posted a few reviews of the year, and there had been lively threads (like the one on high-pressure selling) which still had life in them. I don't think there's anything around right now that fills the same gap.
Since a lot of this blog is going to be about my Aspie-related issues, I thought I'd better share a post I put at my old blog, namely the story of how I plucked up the courage to see the doctor to get referred for a diagnosis. I did that in October, and am still waiting to hear from them. I am expecting a date some time in the new year, but the doctor said it took months in the past and nowadays takes weeks ... but it's been eight weeks, and no word from them as yet.

Starting my Asperger's journey

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Jan. 2nd, 2011 01:06 am
This is the first post I'm making on my new Dreamwidth blog. I normally blog at Indigo Jo Blogs. I'm intending that this one will be more personal and contain more about my progress with my Asperger's syndrome referral, and my other disability interests. Right now I'm posting simply because I can't sleep! That's been a problem most of this past week. I'm testing out posting to this site with my phone, and sadly they don't have a mobile admin interface.

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